This isn't legal advice. It's more like common sense but still I need to say it.

If you have a trial for domestic violence it's a good idea not to show up with the woman who has a restraining order against you. That's a violation of the restraining order. It makes for a short trial.

If you've just negotiated a parenting plan it's understandable that you may have some questions. When you submit the parenting plan to the judge, he may ask if you have any questions. That would be an okay time to ask a question, but asking if you still get your parenting time if you're in jail isn't the one to ask.